Daddy writes this letter to you with deep regret in my heart, why may you ask?
Simply because Mummy and Daddy are no longer together and it must be so confusing for all three of you especially when you occasionally ask why don't we all live together? and why don't you love Mummy no more Daddy?
When I married your Mummy I was the happiest and luckiest man in the world because I was marrying the the most beautiful fiancee anyone could ask for, this day was only ever topped off by the birth of each of you three wonderful, beautiful children.
Unfortunately as is in life all good things seem to come to a end at some point and Daddy being married to Mummy is another to add to that list.
I won't lie to you kids, Mummy and Daddy hadn't been good for a while before Mummy decided to call time on our marriage. Due to various reasons we didn't see eye to eye on things here and there and instead of sitting down and talking to each other about our problems we let them fester and build up to the point where enough was enough and your Mummy decided the time was right to leave.
Maybe Daddy wasn't a good enough husband, friend, best friend, lover, soul mate etc but I know I'm going to be the best ever Daddy you'll ever have.
Over time various reasons might come out about me and your Mum separating, some truer than others but I want all three of you to know that I truly love you. In fact I've loved you deeply from the moment you were born.... No in fact I've loved you right from the moment your Mummy told me she was pregnant with each of you.
I will never stop loving and caring for you guys wherever you may be. Yes you might be little pains at times and no doubt you'll grow up to bigger pains in time but my love for you will never ever die, in fact it will grow stronger as each day passes by. No matter who entered or leaves my life you three will always be my number one well my number one's lol.
a very brave and powerful post #justanotherlinkyReplyDelete
That's beautiful, I am welling up from reading xReplyDelete
oh what a sad and heartfelt post. I'm sure your childrenky are in no doubt how much you love them and I hope all goes ok xx #justanotherlinkyReplyDelete
That must have been tough to write. My husband is divorced from his first wife and at the time his children were all young. It must have been confusing, emotional and difficult for them, but it's important to be honest and to be there for them. #justanotherlinkyReplyDelete
This Ida beautiful and sad post. You have great courage for writing it and thank you for linking up to #justanotherlinky xReplyDelete
How moving. I am sure your children know that they are loved by both parents and that is the most important thing.ReplyDelete
Such a brave post to write. I am sure your kids know how much they are loved #justanotherlinky xxReplyDelete
That is a brave thing to put in writing, im sure your kids will grow to understand why it happened, and they will know now your love for them is not in doubt #justanotherlinkyReplyDelete
Aww! This is just beautiful! Written from the heart! I'm sure your children know you love them xxReplyDelete
Oh, this is such a beautiful post and really heartfelt. I found you on #bigfatlinky I think the most important thing for your children is having the two of you love them and do your best for them. It must have been difficult for all of you, but it sounds like you are doing a good job of letting them know how much you care. xReplyDelete
This just made ur little brother cry at half 4 in the morning :'(ReplyDelete
You sound like a fab Dad and your kids will definitely know you love them. They will respect you for writing this too.ReplyDelete
This is such a moving post. So brave for writing this. I love reading such honest posts and you sound like a wonderful Father to your 3 children. Hope you're ok.ReplyDelete
Thank you so much for linking up to #justanotherlinky
Great post mate. It's sad when it happens and is confusing for the children but for them to sit and read this they will know how much you love them. Especially with the loving words from your heart. #bigfatlinkyReplyDelete